Topic: Anger/ Self Centeredness
Genesis 4: 1-6
In the story about Cain and Abel , Abel was a keeper of sheep, and Cain was a tiller of the ground. Abel brought unto God his best unlike his brother Cain .His offering was not his best because he did not bring his first fruits. The Lord had respect to Abel and his offering because he brought the first fruits unto God. It angered Cain that the Lord chose Abel over him . The Lord said unto Cain, why are you angry. Why do you look sad, and depressed and dejected? If you do well, will you not be accepted/ if you do not well, sin crouches at the door; its desire is for you, but you must master it.
The questions were asked in class what types of emotions do we go through when someone is chosen over you? Jealousy, Anger, Sadness, Depressed, Bitterness, Hurt, etc. In what way do you deal with these emotions? Some people hit things, blame others, some withdraw, some even react with violence, stalking, etc.
What exactly is anger? A strong passion or emotion of displeasure or antagonism, excited by a real or supposed injury or insult to one’s self or others, or by the intent to do such injury.
Most angry people are self-centered . All they think about is themselves— while they are mad they don’t think about anyone else, everything is about them.
Your Perspective is Power. Why? Because the way you look at things affects your faith, emotions, actions, etc. Your perspective should match God’s perspective.
Question— How do we get our perspective to match God’s. The way we do this is by understanding God’s Nature. Everything that God does is based on Love. That means that God’s nature is love. So the answer to the Questions is to love others more than you love yourself.
So how do you combat self-centeredness—-FIX IT !! Love others—— By loving others, you lose self – centeredness, choose something other than yourself .
Last night was a great night in youth class . We are growing which humbles me , I remember when there was only 7 of us and now it’s been 35 plus for a month now , is God great or what? I want to encourage everyone to keep coming Pastor Derrick and Miranda are amazing and love us some much Thank you guys for everything you do for the youth!!!
Let me hear from you. Send me your thoughts about the blog and class notes.
Living In His Blessing,
Lauren Motherway, Student Youth Leader